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Beth Israel Center
for Weight Loss Surgery
COMPLICATIONS AFTER GASTRIC
BYPASS SURGERY
Gastric bypass surgery (also known as
RNY surgery) is a life-saving and enhancing operation for many
severely overweight individuals who have failed to lose weight
through other, less drastic means. For the vast majority of
patients, gastric bypass surgery enables overweight patients to
regain control over their lives and the many medical conditions
associated with obesity such as diabetes, hypertension, sleep apnea
and acid reflux.
There are, however, a substantial
number of people, who through no fault of either the patient or the
surgeon have significant complications and side effects of the RNY.
These could include malnutrition because of the loss of
absorption of protein, iron and vitamins induced by the operation as
part of the mechanism by which the patients lose their excess
weight. Malnutrition can occur even in patients who religiously take
vitamins, iron and calcium tablets every day after RNY surgery.
Malabsorption can also lead to overgrowth of bacteria within
the gut, as manifested by symptoms such as chronic abdominal pain,
fatty stools, diarrhea and embarrassing amounts of gas.
Patients can sometimes complain of
excessive swings in blood sugar (glucose) levels after the RNY. This
may be part of dumping syndrome, a normal reaction to the
rearrangement of the anatomy of the stomach and small intestine
after surgery. Dumping syndrome typically occurs if a RNY patient
eats an excessive amount of sugary food or drinks an excess of
liquids along with meals. Refractory hypoglycemia is a more
profound drop in blood glucose level due to over production of
insulin by the pancreas gland (the organ which regulates blood
glucose levels in response to meals etc) after RNY. This condition
can occur even with good dietary habits after RNY: it can occur
quite unexpectedly and can lead to such drastic drops in blood
glucose levels that patients can pass out until their glucose levels
are restored to normal.
The connection between the small
stomach pouch and the small intestine after RNY surgery has to be
narrow, in order to ensure that patients feel full after only a
small meal. Widening of the connection can lead to an ability to eat
more and possible weight regain. Narrowing of the connection (either
due to an ulcer or stricture/scarring) can lead to
upper abdominal pain after eating, nausea and vomiting. These
symptoms typically occur no earlier than 2-3 months after surgery
and are seen more with the ingestion of solids than liquids. 90% of
ulcers and strictures can be treated with medication or endoscopy
(using a camera to identify the narrowing and dilate it with a
balloon). Some patients with severe ulcers or strictures ultimately
require surgery after medications and balloon dilatation fail to
correct the problem.
I have been in surgical practice in
New Jersey and New York for 8 years specializing in the surgical
treatment of severe obesity. My particular interest is the
correction of complications of gastric bypass surgery. I have
operated on patients with such problems from Minnesota, Nebraska,
Tennessee, Rhode Island, Connecticut, New Jersey and New York with
great success.
Please look at my biography (see the
"About Us" section of this website) and e-mail me any questions you
may have about your particular case. My e-mail address
is egoodman@chpnet.org.
My office telephone number is 212 844
1575. My fax number is 212 844 1581.
My main website is
www.shedweight.com
Hope I can help you.
Yours,
Elliot R Goodman
MD
IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT A
POTENTIALLY DEVASTATING LATE COMPLICATION AFTER GASTRIC BYPASS
SURGERY:
March,
2006
To All Post-Gastric Bypass
Patients:
This
message is for all of patients who have undergone gastric bypass
(weight reduction) surgery.
It is to inform you that a small percentage of patients who
have undergone this type of surgery will develop severe abdominal
pain due to internal hernias.
This condition is called a Petersen’s hernia and must be
treated surgically on an emergency basis.
When
patients lose a significant amount of weight, the fatty tissues in
the abdomen decrease in size.
In some patients, the position of the intestine can shift
within the abdomen and become twisted and obstructed.
If you
should develop abdominal pain you must seek medical attention
immediately.
Petersen’s hernia can be successfully treated and full
recovery is to be expected.
Time is of the essence however. If there is a delay in
diagnosis and treatment beyond a few hours, there is the potential
for loss of a significant portion of the small intestine and even
death.
It is
important that you be aware of this condition. If you develop
abdominal pain, you must immediately seek medical attention and
inform your physician that you have undergone gastric bypass
surgery. You should
also tell them that you have been informed about the potential for a
Petersen’s hernia and wish to be examined by a surgeon on an
emergency basis.
While the
incidence of this condition is relatively low (less than 5% of
patients who have undergone gastric bypass surgery), it is a serious
development that must be treated very quickly.
Sincerely,
Elliot R Goodman
MD
Beth Israel Center for Obesity
Surgery
Caution on Pregnancy
on Heels of Obesity Surgery
Doctors find it can have deadly
complications for mom, baby
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WEDNESDAY, Aug. 11 2004 (HealthDayNews) --
Pregnancy after obesity surgery is by-and-large safe, but
doctors warn that occasionally there could be deadly
complications.
A letter in the Aug. 12 issue of the New
England Journal of Medicine details the case of a pregnant
woman who died 18 months after she had undergone gastric
bypass surgery.
The woman, and her baby, died as a result of
an internal hernia that occurred as a complication of the
gastric surgery. The hernia, which wasn't diagnosed in time,
caused a large section of the woman's bowel to become infected
and die.
"This complication is something that can
happen after [gastric bypass surgery]," said one of the
letter's authors, Dr. Edward Whang, an attending surgeon at
Brigham and Women's Hospital in Boston. "It's probably more
difficult to diagnose in a patient who is pregnant because
some of the symptoms, such as nausea and vomiting, are
symptoms that also happen in pregnancy."
The 41-year old woman was 31 weeks pregnant at
the time she started feeling ill.
She was admitted to a community hospital
complaining of abdominal pain, nausea and vomiting. The
problem, Whang said, is that along with symptoms similar to
those of pregnancy, all of the standard tests can come back
normal even as the problem is occurring.
"There is no perfect way to diagnose this
condition without an operation. Of all of the tests that are
available, CT is the best one, but the results could be normal
and you could still have this condition," he added.
She was transferred to Brigham and Women's
after spending 48 hours at the community hospital.
"When she came to our hospital, she was
already nearly dead," Whang said.
Surgeons at Brigham and Women's removed a
large section of the woman's diseased bowel, and they also
performed a Caesarean section to deliver the baby, who was
already dead.
Three hours after the surgery, the woman, who
weighed 440 pounds, died of cardiac complications.
Whang noted that the gastric bypass surgery,
prenatal care and initial evaluation of the woman's symptoms
did not occur at his hospital.
Dr. Daniel Herron, chief of bariatric surgery
at Mt. Sinai Medical Center in New York City, agreed that
surgery is the only way to definitively diagnose such a
complication.
But, he added, "If a patient who has had
weight loss surgery has abdominal pain, they should be quickly
identified and evaluated by a bariatric surgeon." That's
because bariatric surgeons are familiar with such a
complication and can probably diagnose it faster. And, he
added, time is of the essence in diagnosing this
problem.
Herron also noted that this complication
should become less common because of new methods of bariatric
surgery.
There are two or three spaces in the abdomen
where hernias can occur after many types of abdominal surgery,
he said. After gastric bypass surgery, fat starts to
disappear, allowing the intestines to become more mobile. If
the hernia spaces exist, hernias are more likely to
occur.
That's why bariatric surgeons now suture those
spaces closed, which should substantially decrease the
likelihood of an internal hernia, he said.
Herron said that, based on other studies, he
doesn't believe that pregnancy after gastric bypass is
generally associated with bad outcomes. He does, however,
advise all of his female patients to wait at least one to two
years before becoming pregnant to give their body time to heal
and adjust to its new nutritional needs after
surgery.
Pregnancy during this time, he said, generally
isn't good for a fetus because the mother's body is in a
near-starvation mode, and can't supply proper nutrition to a
developing baby.
In this case, the woman became pregnant about
10 months after her surgery.
The authors of the letter wrote that their
concern is that more and more women are having this procedure.
In 2003, 103,000 gastric bypass operations were performed in
the United States, according to the letter; 84 percent of
those patients are women and most are of childbearing age. As
these women lose weight, they may increase their sexual
activity. And, weight loss often triggers a rise in fertility,
the letter authors said.
The dramatic rise in the number of gastric
bypass surgery hasn't caught the attention of only the
letter's authors. On Aug. 4, the Massachusetts Department of
Public Health issued new guidelines for weight loss surgery
programs.
Along with detailed guidelines for health
practitioners, the expert panel recommended that anyone who is
having gastric bypass surgery should select a hospital that
does more than 100 such surgeries a year, as well as a
physician who does 50 to 100 cases annually, because they'll
be less likely to have complications from the
surgery.
More information
Visit the Massachusetts Office of Health and
Human Services to learn more about weight loss
surgery.
SOURCES: Edward Whang, M.D., attending
surgeon, Brigham and Women's Hospital, and assistant professor
of surgery, Harvard Medical School, Boston; Daniel Herron,
M.D., chief of bariatric surgery, Mount Sinai Medical Center,
New York City; Aug. 12, 2004, New England Journal of
Medicine
Article from link: http://www.medicineonline.com/conditions/article.html?articleID=3014&catID=40
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Recent article from New York
Magazine (May 16, 2005) on the psychologic effects of massive
weight loss after bariatric surgery:
My Life
as a Thin Person
People
like Lisa Marie Sohr, who lose 100 pounds or more with stomach
surgery, find that with their new bodies often come new friends, new
spouses, new lives. But happiness is not a foregone
conclusion.
By Jennifer Senior
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Caption: Lisa Marie Sohr After (Photo Credit: Danielle
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To
see her now—hips framed by low-slung pants, navel shot through with
a $500 belly ring—it strains the imagination to envision Lisa Marie
Sohr, a resplendent Long Island hottie, as an obese woman. She moves
with the insouciance of someone who has always been 120 pounds,
except when she stands up, when she looks a bit as if she’s been
fired from a slingshot. (“It’s like, whoa—I’m used to going
for the big lunge.”) Yet Sohr can recall the day her weight became
not just an unsupportable physical millstone but a metaphysical one:
It was her 33rd birthday. The New York City Police Department had
just forced her into early retirement. And, at five foot four and
236 pounds, she had recently taken to climbing the stairs of her
Baldwin home on her hands and knees.
In July 2002, Sohr
threw herself a combination housewarming-birthday- retirement party.
A week later, she went to Long Island Bariatric Center. And on
August 7, in a five-and-a-half-hour laparoscopic procedure, a
surgeon removed her gallbladder and cinched a gastric band around
her stomach, making it very difficult for her to eat large portions
of food at a time. Within a year, Sohr lost almost half her body
weight, the equivalent of an entire person.
Sohr says she didn’t
have outsize expectations of her surgery. But she says she did
expect her husband, an auto mechanic in Glen Cove, to show a renewed
sexual interest in her and was disappointed when he didn’t. She also
noticed that a lot of the female company she’d kept, many of them
women who’d struggled with their weight their entire lives, suddenly
made themselves scarce. So she found herself a newer, younger,
mostly male crowd. She started going out. She started acting out.
She went to the local bar and played darts until seven in the
morning. If she came home earlier, she’d sit in the car and wait
until she saw her husband leaving for the garage, just to cross his
path. It didn’t have the desired consequence. In September 2003, he
asked her for a divorce.
“My ex was your typical
awkward-rocker guy,” she says today, sitting on the sofa of her
Tudor home, a cigarette dangling from her hand. “Long hair, ripped
blue jeans, T-shirts with dragons on them, glasses. Very geeky,
played Dungeons & Dragons on his computer. But when I was heavy,
I thought he was all I was ever going to get, and my mother
convinced me I wasn’t getting any younger—that if we didn’t marry,
I’d be fat and alone and miserable. But there was no spark. All the
way up the aisle, I was saying to myself, ‘Oh, my God, what am I
doing? Oh, my God, what am I doing? I can’t even run,
because my dress will get stuck on a nail.’ ”
Back then, Sohr needed
a five-pound steel-boned corset to cinch her 39-inch waist into her
custom-made gown. That wasn’t the case this past month, when she
remarried, rising up through the floor of the Chateau Briand wedding
hall in an Ian Stuart size 6 (“which is like a size 4 in human
terms”). Her new husband, a 32-year-old Israeli hunk named Bari, was
her own version of Florence Nightingale: He sold her her first
bikini in ten years.
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 Lisa Marie Sohr
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“My ex,” she continues, “is
a self-conscious girl’s guy.” She points to Bari, whose long curls
are gelled back into a perfect seashell. “This is a wild woman’s
guy. Before, I was, like, on pause. And when you’re on pause, you’re
willing to tolerate a lot. But when you’re not, you grow out of
people.”
Sohr’s ex-husband, Paul
Ruppert, doesn’t necessarily take issue with this interpretation,
but frames it differently. He sees a woman who, after reacquiring
the body of her late adolescence, started to relive it. “She lost a
whole person,” he says, “and became someone
different.”
It’s
hard to think of anyone in American life who gets the freak
sociological privilege of abrupt, overwhelming wish fulfillment.
There are the impoverished kids who sign NBA contracts, perhaps, or
cafeteria workers who win the lottery; on television, there are the
lucky contestants who are selected for extreme-makeover
shows.
Yet for the morbidly
obese, the possibility of rapid and radical change, of a
near-existential reorganization of life, is becoming increasingly
common: Last year, the number of patients who underwent weight-loss
procedures was an estimated 140,600, according to the American
Society for Bariatric Surgery, more than double that of 2002.
Most people who undergo
this procedure are not doing it to look pretty. They’re doing it to
not die young, to save their knees, to be able to walk to and from
the grocery store without gasping for breath. Yet the procedure
often has striking aesthetic consequences, making conventional
beauties of people whose self-images were previously organized, at
least in part, around the very principle of invisibility or
unsightliness. For them, losing weight turns out to be the least of
their transformations. They don’t just have new bodies; they have
new narratives, new public identities. “Many patients greatly
underestimate just how significant the psychological transformation
is,” says Warren Huberman, a clinical psychologist who evaluates
prospective bariatric patients at NYU Medical Center. “I ask what
they anticipate—and what changes they think will be
unpleasant. They look at me like I’ve got three heads. They
can’t imagine anything will go badly if they’re
thin.”
In the annals of
obesity literature, this is not a topic that’s received a ton of
attention. But attend any bariatric support-group meeting, and this
much is clear: One has to learn to be skinny. Even the smallest
adaptive behaviors take years to shake—buying clothes too big,
deeming a subway seat too small, refusing to be first through a
crowded bar. “I had a man come to me a month ago,” says Christine
Ren, a bariatric surgeon at NYU. “He’d started out at 525 pounds.
Now he’s 250. And he says, ‘Doc, I don’t know what to tell people.
Am I man who lost 275 pounds? Or who needs to lose another 60?’
”
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 Gloria Cahill lost
140 pounds. (Photo credit:
Danielle Levitt)
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In some ways, answering
this question is just the beginning. Dramatic weight loss has a way
of exposing not just the architecture of people’s bodies but of
their lives—the subtle economies of power in their relationships,
the suitability of their work, the limits of their own strength—and
that architecture may not look nearly as lovely. A woman may
discover that her marriage of twenty years was predicated on a
dynamic of disrespect and condescension, or that her best friend
since childhood required a sidekick who didn’t threaten her somehow.
Then again, she may also discover that the man she’s been married to
is made of even kinder, sturdier stuff than she ever imagined, and
that her friends have a capacity for generosity more profound than
she’s ever known. It simply depends. Results, as they say in diet
commercials, may vary.
“There was a night—this was maybe
a year and a half ago—when a really gorgeous twentysomething
Frenchman spent the bulk of a party sitting on the coffee table in
front of me, just listening. That was fun.”
This is Gloria Cahill,
46, director of NYU’s Office of Community Service. She had
gastric-bypass surgery four years ago.
“We were in a room full
of people, and a lot of them were the kind of girl-woman who used to
be the bane of my high-school existence—beautiful, self-confident,
not above the occasional fat joke,” she continues. “They were all
looking on, wanting to know who he was and, probably more to the
point, who the hell I was. That was satisfying. At the end of the
evening, all I could think was, ‘This is a new approach to
parties.’ I went from being a wallflower to . . . I don’t know. A
bouquet.”
Warm, sensitive, and
brimming with opinions, Cahill has a lively knack for describing the
effects of her operation. She’s actually 200 pages into writing a
book about it, part of a collaborative effort with her surgeon,
Mitchell Roslin, who helped operate on Al Roker at Lenox Hill. In
one chapter, she likens her new body to a cereal box whose contents
have settled.
“She lost a
whole person, and became someone different.”
“Oh, and then—” she remembers. “This was
maybe two years ago. At a local benefit. I was wearing high heels
and a slinky black dress with a slit up the side. And a very
attractive man parked himself at my table, smiled a bit
mischievously, and declared, ‘I’m very partial to redheads.’
”
In the history of
pickup lines, that one probably wasn’t the most deft, I admit. But
it wasn’t the worst—
“Yes, but it wasn’t my
hair he was looking at,” she says, then bursts out laughing.
“He said it two or three times, as if it were meant to be charming.
I had never experienced that kind of misguided flattery. It was the
construction worker’s wolf whistle in stockbroker’s
clothing.”
Until her surgery,
Cahill had spent almost her entire life as a fat girl—shopping at
the “Chubby Shop” section of Lane Bryant, attending her first
Lean-Line meetings in eighth grade. She finally decided to have her
operation after her mother, also morbidly obese, died in 2000. At
the time, Cahill was 275 pounds, and her sister, roughly the same
weight and ten years her senior, was already struggling with
horribly debilitating medical problems. Cahill was terrified she was
staring into a crystal ball.
Today, Cahill is 135
pounds. She blazes up stairwells; hikes up mountains; twists herself
into yoga poses, luxuriating in the sensuality of her corkscrew
limbs. Adjusting to her new contours took time—a few months after
the surgery, Cahill said “excuse me” to her own reflection before
running into a mirror—but she also had a premonition: “Before I lost
the weight, I had this sneaking suspicion I bore a resemblance to
Annette Bening,” she says. “I never, ever, would have said it
out loud—I’d have been laughed out of the room—but since I lost the
weight, so many people have said it.”
Under the
circumstances, you’d think Cahill would be catnip to men. But her
social life is more complicated than that. Like many people who’ve
been heavy, Cahill missed some of the crucial rites that demystify
the dating process. (Doctors often talk about this phenomenon:
“They’ve never gone through that teenage thing of holding hands,”
says Alfons Pomp, a surgeon at New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Weill
Cornell, “so they meet someone in a bar and wind up in Europe for
the weekend.”)
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“Men notice me more
now,” admits Cahill. “But the thing is, when you’re obese and
relationships don’t go well, you could blame it on, Well, nobody
loves a fat girl. If you’re thin and can’t find a boyfriend,
what do you blame it on? A friend of mine set me up on a date with a
terrific man recently. We got along wonderfully . . . and yet I
never heard back from him.” She gives a bewildered shrug. “Before, I
was never any good at recognizing men who were interested. But now,
when I think I recognize men who are interested in me, I’m
completely flummoxed, because they don’t do
anything.”
Today, Cahill often
views the positive attention of strangers with wariness rather than
unalloyed delight. “There’s a part of me,” she says, “that thinks,
One hundred pounds ago, if I’d sat next to you on this bus, you
wouldn’t have been this nice.”
You can hear it in her
voice—how strange, and not a little bittersweet, it is to discover
that the basic decency of strangers is a conditional thing. She
takes a sip of coffee. We’re in a café in the Village, where more
than a few male patrons have admired her, dressed as she is in a
green V-neck sweater and plaid skirt that shows off her legs. Cahill
seems not to notice. “This is profoundly difficult for me to talk
about,” she confesses. “I was amazed . . . I’m still amazed.” She
stops, puts down her cup. “It just amazes me to see how much power
comes with prettiness.”
Ask
Cahill what she misses most about being fat, and she’ll launch into
a thoughtful riff about knowing who her friends were, about depths
meaning more than surfaces. Ask Sohr, 35, and her answer’s much more
straightforward: “My boobs.”
The bright, sunny day
Sohr picks me up at the Baldwin train station, her cat-green eyes
are concealed by giant sunglasses and her new frame is swaddled in a
coat of brown mink. She’s tough. Frank. Sublime, in her way. Her
observations are unvarnished, and her accent is pure Fran Drescher,
a merry substitution of aws for every or (gawgeous, New
Yawk).
Sohr has always lived
in her body, which may, in part, explain her uncomplicated feelings
of elation now. As a child, she was a tomboy, climbing trees and
chopping wood; in the late eighties, when she was still thin, she
was a promotional model for Bloomingdale’s, sporting more tube tops
and acid-washed casualwear than a girl could dare to dream. At her
heaviest, she still had boyfriends (“I probably dated, like, 200
guys”), participating in medieval fairs so that she could still wear
elaborate, corseted costumes that made her feel sexy.
Even her first
significant weight gain, she says, started as a conscious decision,
inspired by the shame of letting a perp slip away during her first
year on the NYPD—when she threw herself on top of him, he tossed her
off like a horse shaking loose a fly. “I thought I was gonna be this
tank and take him down,” she says. “But I wasn’t heavy enough. I got
teased mercilessly by all the cops because I got my ass handed to me
on account of being so small . . . ” She trails off. “Now, I have a
big ego, and I’m a second-generation cop. There was no way anybody
was going to get away from me again. And nobody did. I used to run
up behind ’em, put my wrist up against their Adam’s apple, lift my
feet up off the ground . . . ” She beams, remembering. “Try holding
190 pounds up in the air on your throat and see how fast you
go—right down to the floor! I choked off their oxygen supply!”
Of course, Sohr didn’t
intend to reach 190 when she set out to gain weight. The tendency
toward obesity ran in the family—her father died at 51, morbidly
obese, and her mother, 57, is awaiting approval for the same surgery
her daughter had. Ultimately, the pounds turned out to be a problem
for Sohr. Her knees, weak before she joined the force, got even
weaker, and tussling with criminals made them weaker still. “I was
always getting hurt,” she says. “I had to be the moron who was first
through the door.”
Then, on patrol at a
traffic accident, Sohr was hit by a woman in a Jaguar. The event
left little mobility in Sohr’s right hand and wrist, forcing her
into early retirement. Then she had knee surgery. Then she got into
a car accident. With each successive injury, Sohr spent more and
more time on the couch, staying up all night watching the SciFi
Channel and drinking two-liter bottles of soda. Her weight soared to
236.
But even before
reaching her peak, Sohr says it was distressing going through so
many weight fluctuations as a female cop. “When you first join the
Police Department and you’re skinny, you’re like the lamb chop,” she
says. “When you start getting heavier, they’ll flirt occasionally,
but they kind of stop. But when you’re really heavy, you start to
hear whispers behind your back.”
“And there was this
girl,” she adds, “who came into the precinct when I was heavy. Gave
me this attitude like she was Miss Thing. Before I retired, I said
to her, ‘Sweetheart, everybody has their day in the sun. Everybody
gets older; everybody’s figure changes. So don’t be mean to the
people who are here for a while, because when you turn into this,
you’re not going to have any friends.’ ” Recently, Sohr went to a
function thrown by her old Brooklyn precinct and ran into this
woman. “I see this girl in the bathroom, and she’s like this.” Sohr
expands her arms. “At least six sizes bigger than me now. I just
looked at her and said, Nice dress.”
She pumps her
fist.
In
the final chapter of Fat Boys: A Slim Book, the historian
Sander Gilman gives a startling time line of the various attempts to
do away with fat via the knife: Pliny the Elder described a “heroic
cure for obesity” that involved surgical intervention in the first
century; in the twelfth century, a surgeon sliced open Count Dedo II
of Groig to reduce his gut. In the twentieth century, the first
attempts at stomach stapling were first done on animals, then on
people (in the late sixties). Surgeons today rely primarily on three
methods: gastric bypass, in which a small pouch is created out of
the top of the stomach and reconnected to the small intestine; the
duodenal switch, in which two-thirds of the stomach is removed and
two-thirds of the intestine is bypassed; and gastric banding, in
which an adjustable silicone ring is looped around the stomach, then
attached to a port sewn directly into the abdominal muscles. To
tighten it, the doctor injects saline directly into the port,
constricting the ring like a blood-pressure cuff.
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 Alison Show lost
130 pounds. (Photo credit:
Danielle Levitt)
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If competently done, all
three of these methods boast reasonably good long-term success
rates. A comprehensive survey in the October 13, 2004, issue of
The Journal of the American Medical Association reports
dramatic reductions not just in weight but diabetes, hypertension,
cholesterol, and obstructive sleep apnea; attend any support-group
meeting, and you’ll also hear story after story about the
restoration of simple dignity: being able to fly without seat-belt
extensions, shop in any old store, tie one’s shoes, cross one’s
legs, pick oneself up after falling down. One woman, a patient of
Ren’s, described the first time she was able to wrap and tuck a
hotel towel around her body. It’s hard, here, to replicate the
mixture of incredulity and gratitude in her voice.
But all bariatric
surgeries also require a lifetime of vitamin and mineral
supplements, which some patients ignore. Sensualists should be
warned: Some people can never eat meat again; others can’t tolerate
pasta or bread. And some replace one form of addiction with another.
Cynthia Buffington, the director of research at U.S. Bariatric in
Fort Lauderdale, says that about 30 percent of its patients convert
a penchant for overeating into alcohol dependence.
Perhaps most critical,
bariatric surgeries are high-risk. Most responsible surgeons won’t
even countenance the idea unless a patient is 100 pounds too heavy
or more. One in 200 patients dies within 30 days of gastric-bypass
surgery, by far the most common procedure; one in 100 dies from the
duodenal switch, the most radical. Gastric banding, the least
mutilating procedure, is by far the safest, with a mortality rate of
just 0.1 percent. Unfortunately, it also seems to be the least
effective. Gastric-banding patients can tolerate liquid foods far
more easily than others, making ice cream a tempting alternative
when little else goes down.
A 1991 study in The
American Journal of Surgery also contains some interesting data
about the mental-health effects of bariatric surgery. In the first
six months, patients reported they were ecstatic. But after two
years, most were back to where they started, at least in the
aggregate. The crude explanation for this, says Walter Pories, one
of the study’s authors and a surgeon at the Brody School of Medicine
at East Carolina University, is that real life once again begins to
reassert itself, and the trials of real life aren’t always things
that skinniness can cure: bad jobs, neglectful spouses, rebellious
children, faces and bodies that turn out only ho-hum. The more
interesting mental-health discovery he and his colleagues made,
Pories says, were the effects the surgery had on people’s marriages.
“If the woman married when she was thin, had kids, became obese, and
then had the surgery, the marriage almost always got a lot better,”
he explains. (An estimated 75 percent of all bariatric patients are
female.) “But if the woman married someone while she was obese and
then became pretty . . . well, then she found a job. Got her
colors done. Felt better about herself. And almost every one of
those marriages ended in divorce.”
“Here I am in Anything
Goes,” says Alison Show, flipping through a pile of photographs
from recent summer-stock productions. “And this is me in
Oklahoma . . . ”
The day I first speak
to Alison Show, Deborah Voigt, the international opera star, is
smiling on the front page of the New York Times, admitting
she had gastric-bypass surgery. It’s a funny coincidence. Though a
musical-theater freak in college, Show chose to major in opera,
precisely because it was the one medium in which her five-foot-two,
260-pound frame wouldn’t be held against her. Then, at 23, she was
cast as the lead in Massenet’s Cendrillon. Her costume
arrived and didn’t fit. The director was furious. She called her
mother that night, telling her she’d decided to have bypass surgery.
Today, at 26, she’s half her old weight and living in New York,
attempting to become an actress.
“When you’re
obese and relationships don’t go well, you could blame it on, ‘Well,
nobody loves a fat girl.’ If you’re thin and can’t find a boyfriend
or get married, what do you blame it
on?”
“And here I am as Sarah Good in The
Crucible,” she continues. “These are all of the opportunities I
never would have had as a heavy person.”
Yet in speaking to
Show, one wonders if opera was still the more forgiving medium.
“When I go to auditions for musicals,” she says, “I look at myself
compared to these girls. They all have huge boobs, they’re all a
size 4, they all put on their leotards and bounce around. And I’m
thinking, I’ve waited three hours for this cattle call, and there
are 300 people in this room who are younger than me, look better,
and can sing and act as well as I can.”
Nor does Show, a
boop-a-doop cutie with a strong jaw and perfect forties hairdo, yet
have any conception of how to play ingenues and temptresses, the
main staples of the Broadway stage for 26-year-olds. She harks back
to college, when she was cast as the lead in The Magic Flute.
“There was no way to conjure any kind of sexual emotion within me,”
she says. “I’m just starting to realize the power of sex and that
kind of persona—from getting free drinks to just getting someone to
let you walk into the subway ahead of them.”
Show says she enjoys
the attention. But she also happens to be married—to a 130-pound
pianist and composer she’s known since grade school. “It’s been
hard,” she says. “My husband and I are still making adjustments. I
used to be funnier in social situations. I used to be more
academically focused. Now, working out is very important to me,
whereas my husband does very little exercise. My image is a
priority. Going out and experiencing life in the evening is a
priority.” She stops herself. “I am a completely different person
from the person he fell in love with.”
So what’s the
glue?
“Our parents knew each
other,” she says. “We had the same circle of friends. Our upbringing
was very similar; we both try to keep Christ at the center of our
lives.
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“I do get a lot of Catholic
guilt,” she says, after a moment. “It feels sinful that I’m aware of
sexuality. I feel guilty for rediscovering myself. It’s almost . . .
vanity.” She pulls out a picture of herself at a 5K race. “Like,
I’ll be running. I love running—I think I chose it because it’s the
antithesis of being fat, because fat people cannot run—and in
the back of my mind, I’ll hear God telling me: You’re worshipping
your body. I’ll feel guilty because it’s just a vessel, it’s not
my soul. And instead of nourishing my soul, I’m taking such a vested
interest in what I look like.”
She flips to an old
photo of herself. “God. I feel like my nose was heavier in
this picture. I feel like my forehead’s fat.”
Recently, Show also
went for reconstructive surgery to tighten the skin around her new,
smaller frame. This is a frequent, nearly inevitable by-product of
bariatric surgery: the sudden presence of excess skin, shapeless as
an oven mitt, surrounding the stomach, arms, and legs. It’s a source
of huge embarrassment, a chronic reminder to the patient of the body
that was. Usually, its removal is not covered by insurance. And in
Show’s case, the operation wasn’t even successful. The procedure
often involves the re-creation of a belly button. But Show’s old
belly button reopened. Now she has a crater in her tummy about one
inch deep.
A few months ago, the
various pressures of Show’s new life began to catch up with her, and
she began to see a therapist, Jude Milner, who’s had bariatric
surgery, too. “The problems actually started maybe a year after my
surgery, when I was cast in a show where I was an adagio dancer,”
Show explains. “The guy had to lift the girls up. At that time, I
was 157 pounds, and all I could think was, This guy is going to
break his back.” She’s quiet for a second. “That’s when I
started. The vomiting and purging. That’s when I realized how easy
it was to develop that habit.” Within two weeks, she’d gotten her
weight down to about 145 pounds.
“I used to think that
if I were thin, I’d be so much happier, and my life, from that
moment on, would be perfect,” she says. “But it’s almost as if I’ve
created other ways to be unhappy.
“I was thinking about
this on the ride over here,” she concludes. “I’m not really any
happier,” she says. “I’m just different.”
Show
isn’t alone in having a panicked reaction to keeping her weight off.
Sohr, at one point, dipped all the way down to 106 pounds. Her
doctors insisted she regain ten. “I was hysterical,” she says. “I
started to cry. I felt fat. But my girlfriend who’d been through the
surgery, she understood—Oh, my God, you gain a pound, you’re
going to go back. It was cool to have her around.” She thinks.
“But my other girlfriend who’s always been tiny, she doesn’t bother
with me anymore. Another went on a diet. She had marital problems,
so she’s trying losing to keep him around.”
We’re sitting in Sohr’s
living room, still a frilly wonderland of bridal paraphernalia.
“Every girl who knows me from before is on a diet right now,” says
Sohr. “And everyone reports to me how much weight they
lost.”
Did she tell these
people that she’d had surgery to achieve her lovely new
results?
“Yeah,” she says. “but
they were never heavy enough to qualify for the surgery. Everybody
was like, ‘You don’t need to lose weight, you’re wonderful the way
you are,’ da da da da da da. But seeing me go from so heavy
to so small, they’re all freaked, I think.
“I don’t have any
girlfriends now,” she adds. “I had my fiancé’s cousin in my bridal
party because I don’t have any girlfriends. My mother was my matron
of honor. All my friends are guys.”
She reflects on this
for a moment. “I was told by one of them that guys always
approach fat chicks because they’re easier,” she says. “That really
hurt. That shocked me. It made me rethink everybody I ever dated.
Was I a target because of my weight, maybe? It just made me
wonder.”
Is it easier being
intimate with men, at least? “I still feel uncomfortable with my
body,” she says. “A lot of my confidence came from my chest. People
always raved about it. Now I look at myself, and I don’t think I
have anything sexy anymore. But now people say, ‘It’s the whole
package that’s sexy; you don’t need to focus on one thing.’
”
Yet her clothes, Sohr
admits, are far sexier; she no longer dresses in busy patterns or
like the girl next door. (“Though my favorite thing was just buying
a white shirt,” she says. “Fat girls can’t wear white. You look like
you’re wearing a tent.”) She’s invested in two-piece lingerie. She
has a closet full of bikinis, a drawer full of thongs. And she
marvels at her newfound sexual freedom. “Before, I couldn’t really
go on top of someone,” she says. “To be funny-graphic about it, my
thighs were so big I couldn’t get a grip on the bed. And there were
goofy things—you watch TV, and you think, I wish I could do
that. Now Bari tosses me around like I’m a powder puff. And you
can’t get close if you’ve got fat in the way, so you don’t get a lot
of satisfaction. I’m more sensitive now.
“But you know,” she
adds, “I think my favorite sensation is being touched on my hips.
Before, I had awful hips. Saddlebags. And now they’re
smooth.
“Yeah,” she says, after
a second. “I like my hips. I always envisioned the hip being a sexy
point on a woman, like an hourglass. So now I have a tendency to lay
on my side. The first time Bari put his hand there, I thought,
Wow.”
Because
bariatric surgery is serious and high-risk, some doctors refuse to
keep before-and-after photos in their offices. Like Roslin at Lenox
Hill. “If you show pictures,” he says, “the only thing patients see
are those pictures. They won’t hear anything else you’ve said. And
I’m in the health-care business, not the cosmetics business. Morbid
obesity is a serious medical disease.”
Gloria Cahill was
Roslin’s patient. She went through a grim odyssey of complications
and mishaps after her surgery in March 2001—strictures in her
esophagus, blockages in her bowel. It took three endoscopies, two
more hospital visits, and three months before her recovery could
begin in earnest. She found the ordeal so traumatic she decided she
wouldn’t proselytize when it was over, even though she had no doubt,
once her health had stabilized, that the surgery had really improved
her life. She made just one exception: her sister, Susie. The two of
them were very close, both in adulthood and growing up, raised by a
widowed mother in a tough neighborhood of Jersey City.
Even though Susie’s health was
unraveling—grave back problems, severe diabetes, high blood
pressure, eroded knees—the procedure was not an easy sell. She was
nervous about giving up her old eating habits, and she’d just
watched her sister go through a long, painful recovery. Cahill
didn’t push. But as Cahill began to shed pounds and move with more
confidence through the world, Susie’s interest began to wax. She and
her husband had just bought a new condo, and Susie could barely
climb the stairs. And then she had a heart attack.
Susie decided to start
attending support- group meetings with Cahill. Eventually, she
booked doctors’ appointments. “I’ll never forget the day she went
for her consultation with the nutritionist,” says Cahill. “She was
struggling to walk. When we got to the middle of the block, there
was a railing. She held on to it, started to cry, and said, ‘My
biggest fear isn’t the surgery; it’s having them telling me I’m too
sick to have it.’ ”
She was told nothing of
the sort. On June 13, 2002, just fifteen months after Cahill had her
own operation, Susie checked into Lenox Hill, whose reputation in
the field of bariatrics is among the finest and whose mortality
rates are among the lowest.
The complications
started from almost the moment she entered the operating room. Some
were routine; others were not. (The hospital, for legal reasons,
will not elaborate.) For seventeen nights, Cahill sat beside her
sister’s hospital bed, talking to her, playing her music, reading to
her from Jane Goodall’s Reason for Hope, even though her
sister was in a coma. “I kept saying, ‘If you can hear me, I know
this is probably annoying you, and you want me to shut up about the
monkeys,’ ” says Cahill. Then she laughs. “But I’m sorry. It’s a
wonderful book. It’s about the challenge of being a person of
science and faith.”
On the eighteenth
night, Cahill, a practicing Catholic, went to the church by the
hospital, where she’d already spent a great deal of time those last
two weeks. “The words ‘Thy will be done’ are a covenant,” says
Cahill. “You better not pray that prayer unless you’re ready to deal
with it. That night, when I knew Susie was dying and I said ‘Thy
will be done,’ it was probably the most heartfelt prayer I’ve ever
said.”
After losing weight,
some bariatric patients develop almost an angularity to their
personality. It’s not just their jaws and cheekbones that leap out,
but a certain sharpness and assertiveness of character. Not Cahill.
There’s something about her aspect that remains, to me anyway, very
round. It’s the softness of her personality, surely, that accounts
for some of it. But one wonders if the rest has to do with a deep
identification with her sister. Three years later, Cahill says it’s
still difficult to succumb to the awful logic of the situation—that
if she hadn’t lost the weight, there’s a chance her sister may not
have died right then. “This is the thing I’ll probably carry to the
grave,” she says. “Even though it’s not rational, even though I know
that if Susie were sitting here, she’d say, ‘Get over it. And don’t
give yourself that much credit. I make my own decisions.’ ” She sips
some of her coffee.
“The day she went for
her consultation,” she continues, “the doctor said, ‘I want you to
understand that you’re not going to come out of this looking like
Gloria. I can’t promise you’re going to be a size 8.’ And that was
fine. She was not doing this to get skinny. And yet . . . when I see
myself at 135 pounds, I see part of what Susie died for. By no means
all of it. But part.”
Cahill’s crying now,
discreetly but steadily. “It would be very easy for me to say, ‘This
surgery killed my sister, and it’s the worst thing in the world,’ ”
she says. “And her last moments of consciousness may have been
imbued with terrible fear . . . ” She looks away. “But also hope,”
she resumes, looking directly at me. “This gave my sister hope, and
nothing else did.”
She takes her cloth
napkin, wipes her eyes, and in the process of setting it down,
grazes her blazer across her plate. She laughs it off, declaring the
thing indestructible.
“It just
amazes me to see how much power comes with
prettiness.”
Meanwhile,
Sohr’s mother awaits approval for her own gastric band, a far less
dangerous procedure, though one not without risks. She seems
prepared to take them. Few things have thrilled or inspired her more
than watching her daughter’s transformation. In fact, before Sohr
made her grand entrance through the floor of the Normandy Room,
wearing that Ian Stuart dress and a tiara on her head, she exchanged
vows in her mother’s old wedding gown. “To see her, at 35, fit into
a dress I wore at 20 . . . that was a very awesome thing for me,”
says her mother, Linda Bajada. “The beautiful young girl who once
was had come back.”
Sohr met Bari in
February 2004, while on vacation in Fort Lauderdale. Her
third-to-last day, she popped into a beachfront store to buy a
bikini, figuring her body deserved it. A handsome salesman
approached and asked if he could be of assistance. She said he
could, and he was. As she yo-yo’d in and out of the dressing room,
they struck up a conversation. He asked if she’d been out dancing in
the area; she mistakenly heard him ask if she wanted to go dancing
with him—a mistake that only a woman with renewed confidence in her
body would probably make. “Is that an invitation?” she asked.
“Sure,” he said, figuring, Why not?
“I gotta be honest with
ya,” says Sohr. “I thought he was gonna be a one-night
stand.”
It wasn’t, as we all
now know. She spent the next 72 hours with him and left on February
12. On Valentine’s Day, Bari spent all day on the phone with his
future wife. Six days later, she caught a midnight flight back to
Florida and found an apartment with Bari. In May, they moved back to
New York. This April, they got married. Almost the entire staff of
Long Island Bariatric Center attended, as did her
surgeon.
I ask Sohr if she
thinks Bari would have considered dating her when she was
heavy.
She releases a long
stream of smoke. “He’d have been nice to me,” she says. “He’s got
friends who are heavy. But dated me? Probably not.” Bari opens his
mouth to protest. She waves him off. “Let’s face it, the guy could
be a GQ model. He is gorgeous”—gawgeous—“but during
that period, I was different—very down, very drab personality. I
wouldn’t have talked to myself.”
Bari doesn’t buy it. “I
just saw the eyes,” he says. “That’s why I married her—so I could
look into those eyes for the rest of my life. The body, it’s just
the outside. What’s it gonna be twenty years from now? What I look
for in a woman is a good personality and a friend.”
Sohr still keeps a
picture of her old self in her wallet. It’s “a really gross one,” as
she calls it. She wants everyone in the world to know that a similar
transformation is available to them. “Anyone I see who’s overweight,
I start a conversation about it,” she says. “I never forget where I
came from.”
She also shows me a
picture of herself in the bikini she bought from Bari. She looks
staggeringly skinny in it. She says she’s gained weight
since.
“But I was a size zero
once in my life,” she says. “I hit my goal. I blew past my
goal. I was there.”
Bari pipes up. “And I
didn’t like it,” he says. “There was nothing to grab. Nothing! No
meat.”
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